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10 Things About Writing I Wish I Knew 10 Years Ago
1) Be patient. When I was 23 I always felt this absurd need to draft
quickly, edit very little, and send out the piece immediately. Just
because you finished a 3,000 word story doesn’t mean you should submit
it to the New Yorker an hour later. The time away from a piece of
writing is time spent on the piece of writing.
2) It’s okay to not be writing. Guilt can be a motivator, sure, but
when that guilt is clouding your story and ideas and generally fucking
with you in a way that pushes you to write badly, it’s time to stop. I’m
all for working hard and pushing through, but learn to forgive yourself
and walk away sometimes. I once went an entire year without writing and
it felt good.
3) Listen to editors who reject your work. Seems easy to just read a
rejection and think, “fuck them.” You can say that, and you probably
will, but maybe actually take to heart what they say. The advice on why
your piece wasn’t accepted may not click with you, but if an editor is
taking the time to say why it doesn’t work, listen. Staple it to your
wall. You’re going to collect a mountain of form rejections and no
responses. Editors who take the time to respond, to critique, are
saints.
4) Don’t set a writing schedule. Put down words when you want to. If
that’s all day, then do it. If it’s ten minutes, great. If you treat
your writing like an office day job it’s going to start feeling that
way.
5) You’re not Bukowski, or Hemingway, or David Foster Wallace. You
won’t understand this now, but early on, you’ll go through a phase of
imitation. It’s okay. That idolization will start to flake away and your
personality/style will come through, eventually. I spent a good two
years as a middle class white kid living in my parents basement thinking
I was similar to Bukowski, which is disgusting.
6) No writer knows what they are doing. We are literally taking
symbols and forming things called sentences into things called
paragraphs into things called stories into things called novels. One day
someone will give you a one star review on Amazon because of your poor
character development and plot pacing.
7) Don’t isolate yourself. This one seems tricky because most likely
you’ll spend a good chunk of your day reading and writing and thinking
about writers and reading interviews and all that. It’s good to absorb
everything, and if you really love writing, you’ll be obsessed. But
please, get outside. And this doesn’t mean going to a reading. And it
doesn’t mean jogging alone. Call your family. Go out for drinks and
don’t say a word about your novels word count.
8) Take care of your body. I’m still a skinny fuck with a little
belly and very little upper body strength, but I watch what I eat and
exercise now. Just because you go to the gym doesn’t necessarily mean
you’re a bro. Besides, people will find you less annoying if you don’t
look like a stereotypical writer. Hey, I did twenty push-ups between
this number and the last.
9) Stay humble. No matter what you write, who you publish with, what
agent said they were interested in you, stay small and never stop being
curious.
10) Write what you don’t know.